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COMMUNICATION SKILLS-MARCH 18, 2008 |
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Communication is an art that is quickly fading. The more elaborate our means of communication (cell phones, text messaging, etc. ) the less we actually communicate. There are several ingredients needed for successful communication. If you adhere to these three things, you will find that you will have much better success in conveying you message. 1. Have the right intent 2. Come from a position of love 3. Establish rapport. If you exercise these three factors you will find that your communication skills will improve tremendously. Let's take a closer look at the three rules from above. Have the right intent simply means look to empower and help the other person. It does not mean to allow yourself to be taken advantage of. It means look to be the other persons problem solver. Come from a position of love means to look at things from the other persons side. Don't become preachy or needy but rather put the other persons needs ahead of your own and do it with style and grace. Lastly in order to have any communication success you must be in rapport. There have been volumes written on the subject of rapport and I highly suggest that you go to the library and research the topic if you are not familiar with it. Communication skilss are needed everyday. Whether it is communication with your family, friends, or boss, you will find that if you learn and master communication skills, it will serve you well. If you need help with communication skills give Dr. Inselman from Creative Coaching a call at 1-888-201-0567.
Communication Skills
Written by Bill Smiley, on 18-03-2008 12:51
Dr. Inselman you are correct when you say that communication is the key. I am the CEO of a corporation that employs 65 people. I know that when I hire and employee, or give them a raise or even fire an employee it is all based on what was or what was not communicated. People would serve themselves well if they took your advice and learned these very important skills. My first marriage ended in divorce because neither one of us communicated what we needed properly. Thank you again Dr. Inselman for your insight.
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Written by Dr. Paul Inselman, on 25-05-2008 14:49
Bill, This question is directed to you or anyone else on the Creative Coaching blog. Where do you think the communication broke down in your marriage? If you had to do it all over again what would you do differently? Do you think knowing what you do now you could have saved your marriage? |
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